{"id":757,"date":"2024-04-17T06:11:16","date_gmt":"2024-04-17T06:11:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sasuudad.ee\/?page_id=757"},"modified":"2024-11-16T09:00:27","modified_gmt":"2024-11-16T09:00:27","slug":"kolmas","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.sasuudad.ee\/en_us\/kolmas\/","title":{"rendered":"What didn't help?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-group alignfull has-background-background-color has-background\" style=\"margin-top:0;margin-bottom:0;padding-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);padding-right:var(--wp--preset--spacing--30);padding-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);padding-left:var(--wp--preset--spacing--30)\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-container-core-group-is-layout-392eb801 wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns alignwide are-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-30f78326 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:60%\">\n<p>&#8220;Vanemad olid kogu aeg t\u00f6\u00f6l \u2013 olin palju aega \u00fcksinda.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Pere ninnun\u00e4nnutas mind liialt. Oleksin tahtnud energilist l\u00e4henemist, mitte ka morbiidset olekut \u2013 energia peegeldab energiat\u201d. \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sentences such as: \"I'm an energy vampire\"; \"Act normal\"; \"I talk too much\".<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Keegi ei kuula, me pole v\u00f5rdsed, t\u00e4iskasvanud ei kuula meid.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Mitte keegi ei v\u00f5tnud minu muret t\u00f5siselt.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;R\u00e4\u00e4kisin kooli ps\u00fchholoogile oma murest \u2013 jutt l\u00e4ks \u00fcle kooli liikvele.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Ma ei usaldanud t\u00e4iskasvanuid, sest nad ei t\u00e4itnud oma lubadusi.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;K\u00f5ik k\u00fcsivad, miks sa nii tegid \u2013 sellega annad juba hinnangu.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Ema on liiga muretseja ja sellep\u00e4rast v\u00e4ga emaga ei r\u00e4\u00e4gi oma muredest.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Koolis oli kokkupuude erinevate t\u00f6\u00f6tajatega \u2013 ma ei tunne, et nendest oleks olnud v\u00e4ga suurt kasu. Pigem nad hirmutasid ja mul tekkis hirm, et \u00e4kki saadetaksegi mind erikooli.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Keegi ei tegelenud minuga s\u00fcvitsi ega keskendunud abistamisele.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Ma ei soovi kohtuda liiga paljude spetsialistidega, kuna ei j\u00f5ua kogu aeg oma probleemidest r\u00e4\u00e4kida.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Nii v\u00f5i naa ei usu keegi mind &#8211; sp ma ei r\u00e4\u00e4gigi.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Asjade peale sundimine&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Igal v\u00f5imalikul viisil \u00fcritas mu kinni panna, aga minu muret ei kuulaud.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Spetsialisti juures k\u00e4ia oli alandav &#8211; kritiseeris mind kogu aeg.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Tundsin, et spetsialisti ei huvita \u00fcldse, olen p\u00e4tt siin, nooruk. V\u00f5i olen lapsep\u00f5lve kinni j\u00e4\u00e4nud, kasva v\u00e4lja..&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Spetsialist v\u00f5ttis auto peale \u2013 pani muusika valjusti ja ei kuulanud mind.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Karjuti mu peale&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Iga hinnanguga sulgesin rohkem enda sisse. Ma ei jaganud, mis toimub, kartsin hinnanguid.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Kui nad \u00fctlevad halvasti, ei taha abi vastu v\u00f5tta.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;Tunenn halvasti kui hinnatakse tegusid, teadmata mis toimub selle taga. Hullult h\u00e4irib.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;M\u00e4letan ainult halba kriitikat \u201eSinust ei tule kunagi midagi, sa ei l\u00f5peta kuskil, anna kohe alla, miks sa \u00fcldse oled siin\u201c<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-vertically-aligned-center is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:50%\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full ext-import\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"940\" height=\"625\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sasuudad.ee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/ei-toota-1.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-795\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sasuudad.ee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/ei-toota-1.png 940w, https:\/\/www.sasuudad.ee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/ei-toota-1-300x199.png 300w, https:\/\/www.sasuudad.ee\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/ei-toota-1-768x511.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 940px) 100vw, 940px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Vanemad olid kogu aeg t\u00f6\u00f6l \u2013 olin palju aega \u00fcksinda.&#8221; &#8220;Pere ninnun\u00e4nnutas mind liialt. Oleksin tahtnud energilist l\u00e4henemist, mitte ka morbiidset olekut \u2013 energia peegeldab energiat\u201d. \u00a0 Laused nagu: \u201cOlen energiavampiir\u201d; \u201cK\u00e4itu normaalselt\u201d; \u201cR\u00e4\u00e4gin liiga palju\u201d &#8220;Keegi ei kuula, me pole v\u00f5rdsed, t\u00e4iskasvanud ei kuula meid.&#8221; &#8220;Mitte keegi ei v\u00f5tnud minu muret t\u00f5siselt.&#8221; &#8220;R\u00e4\u00e4kisin kooli&hellip;&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.sasuudad.ee\/en_us\/kolmas\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Read More &raquo;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">What didn't help?<\/span><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-757","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sasuudad.ee\/en_us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/757","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sasuudad.ee\/en_us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sasuudad.ee\/en_us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sasuudad.ee\/en_us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.sasuudad.ee\/en_us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=757"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.sasuudad.ee\/en_us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/757\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1608,"href":"https:\/\/www.sasuudad.ee\/en_us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/757\/revisions\/1608"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.sasuudad.ee\/en_us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=757"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}